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CHAPTER XII
ON NATIONAL EDUCATION
The good effects resulting from attention to private
education will ever be very confined, and the parent who really puts his own
hand to the plough, will always, in some degree, be disappointed, till
education becomes a grand national concern. A man cannot retire into a desert
with his child, and if he did he could not bring himself back to childhood, and
become the proper friend and playfellow of an infant or youth. And when
children are confined to the society of men and women, they very soon acquire
that kind of premature manhood which stops the growth of every vigorous power
of mind or body. In order to open their faculties they should be excited to
think for themselves; and this can only be done by mixing a number of children
together, and making them jointly pursue the same objects. A child very soon contracts a benumbing indolence of
mind, which he has seldom sufficient vigour afterwards to shake off, when he
only asks a question instead of seeking for information, and then relies
implicitly on the answer he receives. With his equals in age this could never
be the case, and the subjects of inquiry, though they might be influenced,
would not be entirely under the direction of men, who frequently damp, if not
destroy, abilities, by bringing them forward too hastily: and too hastily they
will infallibly be brought forward, if the child be confined to the society of
a man, however sagacious that man may be. Besides, in you the seeds of every affection should
be sown, and the respectful regard, which is felt for a parent, is very
different from the social affections that arc to constitute the happiness of
life as it advances. Of these equality is the basis, and an intercourse of
sentiments unclogged by that observant seriousness which prevents disputation,
though it may not enforce submission. Let a child have ever such an affection
for his parent, he will always languish to play and prattle with children; and
the very respect he feels, for filial esteem always has a dash of fear mixed
with it, will, if it do not teach him cunning, at least prevent him from
pouring out the little secrets which first open the heart to friendship and
confidence, gradually leading to more expansive benevolence. Added to this, he
will never acquire that frank ingenuousness of behaviour, which young people
can only attain by being frequently in society where they dare to speak what
they think; neither afraid of being reproved for their presumption, nor laughed
at for their folly. Forcibly impressed by the reflections which the sight
of schools, as they are at present conducted, naturally suggested, I have
formerly delivered my opinion rather warmly in favour of a private education;
but further experience has led me to view the subject in a different light. I
still, however, think schools, as they are now regulated, the hot-beds of vice
and folly, and the knowledge of human nature, supposed to be attained there,
merely cunning selfishness. At school boys become gluttons and slovens, and,
instead of cultivating domestic affections, very early rush into the
libertinism which destroys the constitution before it is formed; hardening the
heart as it weakens the understanding. I should, in fact, be averse to boarding-schools, if
it were for no other reason than the unsettled state of mind which the
expectation of the vacations produces. on these the children's thoughts are
fixed with eager anticipating hopes, for, at least, to speak with moderation,
half of the time, and when they arrive they are spent in total dissipation and
beastly indulgence. But, on the contrary, when they are brought up at
home, though they may pursue a plan of study in a more orderly manner than can
be adopted when near a fourth part of the year is actually spent in idleness,
and as much more in regret and anticipation; yet they there acquire too high an
opinion of their own importance, from birth, allowed to tyrannise over
servants, and from the anxiety expressed by most mothers, on the score of
manners, who, eager to teach the accomplishments of a gentleman, stifle, in
their birth, the virtues of a man. Thus brought into company when they ought to
be seriously employed, and treated like men when they are still boys, they
become vain and effeminate. The only way to avoid two extremes equally injurious
to morality would be to contrive some way of combining a public and private
education. Thus to make men citizens two natural steps might be taken, which
seem directly to lead to the desired point; for the domestic affections, that
first open the heart to the various modifications of humanity, would be
cultivated, whilst the children were nevertheless allowed to spend great part
of their time, on terms of equality, with other children. I still recollect, with pleasure, the country
day-school; where a boy trudged in the morning, wet or dry, carrying his books,
and his dinner, if it were at a considerable distance; a servant did not then
lead master by the hand, for, when he had once put on coat and breeches, he was
allowed to shift for himself, and return alone in the evening to recount the
feats of the day close at the parental knee. His father's house was his home,
and was ever after fondly remembered; nay, I appeal to many superior men, who
were educated in this manner, whether the recollection of some shady lane where
they conned their lesson; or, of some stile, where they sat making a kite, or
mending a bat, has not endeared their country to them? But, what boy ever recollected with pleasure the
years he spent in close confinement, at an academy near London? unless, indeed,
he should, by chance, remember the poor scarecrow of an usher, whom he
tormented; or, the tartman, from whom he caught a cake, to devour it with a
cattish appetite of selfishness At boarding-schools of every description, the
relaxation of the junior boys is mischief; and of the senior, vice. Besides, in
great schools, what can be more prejudicial to the moral character than the
system of tyranny and abject slavery which is established amongst the boys, to
say nothing of the slavery to forms, which makes religion worse than a farce?
For what good can be expected from the youth who receives the sacrament of the
Lord's Supper, to avoid forfeiting half a guinea, which he probably afterwards
spends in some sensual manner? Half the employment of the youths is to elude
the necessity of attending public worship; and well they may, for such a
constant repetition of the same thing must be a very irksome restraint on their
natural vivacity. As these ceremonies have the most fatal effect on their
morals, and as a ritual performed by the lips, when the heart and mind are far
away, is not now stored up by our Church as a bank to draw on for the fees of
the poor souls in purgatory, why should they not be abolished? But the fear of innovation, in this country, extends
to everything. This is only a covert fear, the apprehensive timidity of
indolent slugs, who guard, by sliming it over, the snug place, which they
consider in the light of an hereditary estate; and eat, drink, and enjoy
themselves, instead of fulfilling the duties, excepting a few empty forms, for
which it was endowed. These are the people who most strenuously insist on the
will of the founder being observed, crying out against all reformation, as ;f
it were a violation of justice. I am now alluding particularly to the relics of
Popery retained in our colleges, when the Protestant members seem to be such
sticklers for the Established Church; but their zeal never makes them lose
sight of the spoil of ignorance, which rapacious priests of superstitious
memory have scraped together. No, wise in their generation, they venerate the
prescriptive right of possession, as a stronghold, and still let the sluggish
bell tinkle to prayers, as during the days when the elevation of the host was
supposed to atone for the sins of the people, lest one reformation should lead
to another, and the spirit kill the letter. These Romish customs have the most
baneful effect on the morals of our clergy; for the idle vermin who two or
three times a day perform in the most slovenly manner a service which they
think useless, but call their duty, soon lose a sense of duty. At college,
forced to attend or evade public worship, they acquire an habitual contempt for
the very service, the performance of which is to enable them to live in
idleness. It is mumbled over as an affair of business, as a stupid boy repeats
his talk, and frequently the college cant escapes from the preacher the moment
after he has left the pulpit, and even whilst he is eating the dinner which he
earned in such a dishonest manner. Nothing, indeed, can be more irreverent than the
cathedral service as it is now performed in this country, neither does it
contain a set of weaker men than those who are the slaves of this childish
routine. A disgusting skeleton of the former state is still exhibited; but all
the solemnity that interested the imagination, if it did not purify the heart,
is stripped off. The performance of high mass on the Continent must impress
every mind, where a spark of fancy glows, with that awful melancholy, that
sublime tenderness, so near akin to devotion. I do not say that these
devotional feelings are of more use, in a moral sense, than any other emotion
of taste; but I contend that the theatrical pomp which gratifies our senses, is
to be preferred to the cold parade that insults the understanding without
reaching the heart. Amongst remarks on national education, such
observations cannot be misplaced, especially as the supporters of these
establishments, degenerated into puerilities, affect to be the champions of
religion. Religion, pure source of comfort in this vale of tears! how has thy
clear stream been muddied by the dabblers, who have presumptuously endeavoured
to confine in one narrow channel, the living waters that ever flow towards God
— the sublime ocean of existence! What would life be without that peace which
the love of God, when built on humanity, alone can impart? Every earthly
affection turns back, at intervals, to prey upon the heart that feeds it; and
the purest effusions of benevolence, often rudely damped by man, must mount as
a free-will offering to Him who gave them birth, whose bright image they
faintly reflect. In public schools, however, religion, confounded with
irksome ceremonies and unreasonable restraints, assumes the most ungracious
aspect: not the sober austere one that commands respect whilst it inspires
fear; but a ludicrous cast, that serves to point a pun. For, in fact, most of
the good stories and smart things will enliven the spirits that have been
concentrated at whist, are manufactured out of the incidents to which the very
men labour to give a droll turn who countenance the abuse to live on the spoil.
There is not, perhaps, in the kingdom, a more
dogmatical, or luxurious set of men, than the pedantic tyrants who reside in colleges
and preside at public schools. The vacations are equally injurious to the
morals of the masters and pupils, and the intercourse, which the former keep up
with the nobility, introduces the same vanity and extravagance into their
families, which banish domestic duties and comforts from the lordly mansion,
whose state is awkwardly aped. The boys, who live at a great expense with the
masters and assistants, are never domesticated, though placed there for that
purpose; for, after a silent dinner, they swallow a hasty glass of wine, and
retire to plan some mischievous trick, or to ridicule the person or manners of
the very people they have just been cringing to, and. whom they ought to
consider as the representatives of their parents. Can it then be a matter of surprise that boys become
selfish and vicious who are thus shut out from social converse? or that a mitre
often graces the brow of one of these diligent pastors? The desire of living in the same style, as the rank
just above them, infects each individual and every class of people, and
meanness is the concomitant of this ignoble ambition; but those professions are
most debasing whose ladder is patronage; yet, out of one of these professions
the tutors of youth are, in general, chosen. But, can they be expected to
inspire independent sentiments, whose conduct must be regulated by the cautious
prudence that is ever on the watch for preferment? So far, however, from thinking of the morals of boys,
I have heard several masters of schools argue, that they only undertook to
teach Latin and Greek; and that they had fulfilled their duty, by sending some
good scholars to college. A few good scholars, I grant, may have been formed by
emulation and discipline; but, to bring forward these clever boys, the health
and morals of a number have been sacrificed. The sons of our gentry and wealthy
commoners are mostly educated at these seminaries, and will anyone pretend to
assert that the majority, making every allowance, come under the description of
tolerable scholars? It is not for the benefit of society that a few
brilliant men should be brought forward at the expense of the multitude. It is
true, that great men seem to start up, as great revolutions occur, at proper
intervals, to restore order, and to blow aside the clouds that thicken over the
face of truth; but let more reason and virtue prevail in society, and these
strong winds would not be necessary. Public education, of every denomination,
should be directed to form citizens; but if you wish to make good citizens, you
must first exercise the affections of a son and a brother. This is the only way
to expand the heart; for public affections, as well as public virtues, must
ever grow out of the private character, or they are merely meteors that shoot
athwart a dark sky, and disappear as they are gazed at and admired. Few, I believe, have had much affection for mankind,
who did not first love their parents, their brothers, sisters, and even the
domestic brutes, whom they first played with. The exercise of youthful
sympathies forms the moral temperature; and it is the recollection of these
first affections and pursuits that gives life to those that are afterwards more
under the direction of reason. In youth, the fondest friendships are formed,
the genial juices mounting at the same time, kindly mix; or, rather the heart,
tempered for the reception of friendship, is accustomed to seek for pleasure in
something more noble than the churlish ratification of appetite. In order then to inspire a love of home and domestic
pleasures, children ought to be educated at home for riotous holidays only make
them fond of home for their own sakes. Yet, the vacations, which do not foster
domestic affections, continually disturb the course of study, and render any
plan of improvement abortive which includes temperance; still, were they
abolished, children would be entirely separated from their parents, and I
question whether they would become better citizens by sacrificing the
preparatory affections, by destroying the force of relationships that render
the marriage state as necessary as respectable. But, if a private education
produce self-importance, or insulate a man in his family, the evil is only
shifted, not remedied. This train of reasoning brings me back to a subject,
on which mean to dwell, the necessity of establishing proper day-schools. But, these should be national establishments, for
whilst schoolmasters are dependent on the caprice of parents, little exertion
can be expected from them, more than is necessary to please ignorant people.
Indeed, the necessity of a master's giving the parents some sample of the boy's
abilities, which during the vacation is shown to every visitor,1 is
productive of more mischief than would at first be supposed. For it is seldom
done entirely, to speak with moderation, by the child itself; thus the master
countenances falsehood, or winds the poor machine up to some extraordinary
exertion, that injures the wheels, and stops the progress of gradual
improvement. The memory is loaded with unintelligible words, to make a show of,
without the understanding's acquiring any distinct ideas: but only that
education deserves emphatically to be termed cultivation of mind, which teaches
young people how to begin to think. The imagination should not be allowed to
debauch the understanding before it gained strength, or vanity will become the
forerunner of vice: for every way of exhibiting the acquirements of a child is
injurious to its moral character. How much time is lost in teaching them to recite what
they do not understand? whilst, seated on benches, all in their best array, the
mammas listen with astonishment to the parrot like prattle, uttered in solemn
cadences, with all the pomp of ignorance and folly. Such exhibitions only serve
to strike the spreading fibres of vanity through the whole mind; for they
neither teach children to speak fluently, nor behave gracefully. So far from
it, that these frivolous pursuits might comprehensively be termed the study of
affectation; for we now rarely see a simple, bashful boy, though few people of
taste were ever disgusted by that awkward sheepishness so natural to the age
which schools and an early introduction into society, have changed into
impudence and apish grimace. Yet, how can these things be remedied whilst schoolmaster
depend entirely on parents for a subsistence; and, when so many rival schools
hang out their lures, to catch the attention of vain fathers and mothers, whose
parental affection only leads them to wish that their children should outshine
those of their neighbours? Without great good luck, a sensible, conscientious
man, would starve before he could raise a school, if he disdained to bubble
weak parents by practising the secret tricks of the craft. In the best regulated schools, however, where swarms
are not crammed together, many bad habits must be acquired; but, at common
schools, the body, heart, and understanding, are equally stunted, for parents
are often only in quest of the cheapest school, and the master could not live,
if he did not take a much greater number than he could manage himself; nor will
the scanty pittance, allowed for each child, permit him to hire ushers
sufficient to assist in the discharge of the mechanical part of the business.
Besides, whatever appearance the house and garden may make, the children do not
enjoy the comfort of either, for they are continually reminded by irksome
restrictions that they are not at home, and the state-rooms, garden, etc., must
be kept in order for the recreation of the parents; who, of a Sunday, visit the
school, and are impressed by the very parade that renders the situation of
their children uncomfortable. With what disgust have I heard sensible women, for
girls are more restrained and cowed than boys, speak of the wearisome
confinement, which they endured at school. Not allowed, perhaps, to step out of
one broad walk in a superb garden, and obliged to pace with steady deportment
stupidly backwards and forwards, holding up their heads and turning out their
toes, with shoulders braced back, instead of bounding, as nature directs to
complete her own design, in the various attitudes so conducive to health.2
The pure animal spirits, which make both mind and body shoot out, and unfold
the tender blossoms of hope, are turned sour, and vented in vain wishes or pert
repinings, that contract the faculties and spoil the temper; else they mount to
the brain, and sharpening the understanding before it gains proportionable
strength, produce that pitiful cunning which disgracefully characterises the
female mind-and I fear will ever characterise it whilst women remain the slaves
of power! The little respect paid to chastity in the male world
is, I am persuaded, the grand source of many of the physical and moral evils
that torment mankind, as well as of the vices and follies that degrade and
destroy women; yet, at school, boys infallibly lose that decent bashfulness,
which might have ripened into modesty, at home. And what nasty indecent tricks do they not also learn
from each other, when a number of them pig together in the same bedchamber, not
to speak of the vices, which render the body weak, whilst they effectually
prevent the acquisition of any delicacy of mind. The little attention paid to
the cultivation of modesty, amongst men, produces great depravity in all the
relationships of society; for, not only love — love that ought to purify the
heart, and first call forth all the youthful powers, to prepare the man to
discharge the benevolent duties of life, is sacrificed to premature lust; but,
all the social affections are deadened by the selfish gratifications, which
very early pollute the mind, and dry up the generous juices of the heart. In
what an unnatural manner is innocence often violated; and what serious
consequences ensue to render private vices a public pest. Besides, an habit of
personal order, which has more effect on the moral character, than is, in
general, supposed, can only be acquired at home, where that respectable reserve
is kept up which checks the familiarity that, sinking into beastliness,
undermines the affection it insults. I have already animadverted on the bad habits which
females acquire when they are shut up together; and, I think, that the
observation may fairly be extended to the other sex, till the natural inference
is drawn which I have had in view throughout — that to improve both sexes they
ought, not only in private families, but in public schools, to be educated
together. If marriage be the cement of society, mankind should all be educated
after the same model, or the intercourse of the sexes will never deserve the
name of fellowship, nor will women ever fulfil the peculiar duties of their
sex, till they become enlightened citizens, till they become free by being
enabled to earn their own subsistence, independent of men; in the same manner,
I mean, to prevent misconstruction, as one man is independent of another. Nay,
marriage will never be held sacred till women, by being brought up with men,
are prepared to be their companions rather than their mistresses; for the mean
doublings of cunning will ever render them contemptible, whilst oppression
renders them timid. So convinced am I of this truth, that I will venture to
predict that virtue will never prevail in society till the virtues of both
sexes are founded on reason; and, till the affections common to both are
allowed to gain their due strength by the discharge of mutual duties. Were boys and girls permitted to pursue the same
studies together, those graceful decencies might early be inculcated which
produce modesty without those sexual distinctions that taint the mind. Lessons
of politeness, and that formulary of decorum, which treads on the heels of
falsehood, would be rendered useless by habitual propriety of behaviour. Not
indeed put on for visitors, like the courtly robe of politeness, but the sober
effect of cleanliness of mind. Would not this simple elegance of sincerity be a
chaste homage paid to domestic affections, far surpassing the meretricious
compliments that shine with false lustre in the heartless intercourse of
fashionable life? But till more understanding preponderates in society, there
will ever be a want of heart and taste, and the harlot's rouge will supply the
place of that celestial suffusion which only virtuous affections can give to
the face. Gallantry, and what is called love, may subsist without simplicity of
character but the main pillars of friendship are respect and confidence — esteem
is never founded on it cannot tell what! A taste for the fine arts requires great cultivation,
but not more than a taste for the virtuous affections, and both suppose that
enlargement of mind which opens so many sources of mental pleasure. Why do
people hurry to noisy scenes and crowded circles? I should answer, because they
want activity of mind, because they have not cherished the virtues of the
heart. They only therefore see and feel in the gross, and continually pine
after variety, finding everything that is simple insipid. This argument may be carried further than
philosophers are rare of, for if nature destined woman, in particular, for the
discharge of domestic duties, she made her susceptible of the attached
affections in a great degree. Now women are notoriously fond of pleasure, and
naturally must be so according to my definition, because they cannot enter into
the minutia of domestic taste, lacking judgment, the foundation of all taste;
for the understanding, in spite of sensual cavillers, reserves to itself the
privilege of conveying pure joy to the heart. With what a languid yawn have I seen an admirable poem
thrown down that a man of true taste returns to again and again with rapture;
and whilst melody has almost suspended respiration, a lady has asked me where I
bought my gown. I have seen also an eye glanced coldly over a most exquisite
picture rest, sparkling with pleasure, on a caricature rudely sketched; and
whilst some terrific feature in nature has spread a sublime stillness through
my soul, I have been desired to observe the pretty tricks of a lap-dog that my
perverse fate forced me to travel with. Is it surprising that such a tasteless
being should rather caress this dog than her children? Or that she should
prefer the rant of flattery to the simple accents of sincerity? To illustrate this remark I must be allowed to
observe that men of the first genius and most cultivated minds have appeared to
have the highest relish for the simple beauties of nature; and they must have
forcibly felt, what they have so well described, the charm which natural
affections and unsophisticated feelings spread round the human character. It is
this power of looking into the heart, and responsively vibrating with each
emotion, that enables the poet to personify each passion, and the painter to
sketch with a pencil of fire. True taste is ever the work of the understanding employed
in observing natural effects; and till women have more understanding, it is
vain to expect them to possess domestic taste. Their lively senses will ever be
at work to harden their hearts, and the emotions struck out of them will
continue to be vivid and transitory, unless a proper education store their mind
with knowledge. It is the want of domestic taste, and not the
acquirement of knowledge, that takes women out of their families, and tears the
smiling babe from the breast that ought to afford it nourishment. Women have
been allowed to remain in ignorance and slavish dependence many, very many,
years, and still we hear of nothing but their fondness of pleasure and sway,
their preference of rakes and soldiers, their childish attachment to toys, and
the vanity that makes them value accomplishments more than virtues. History brings forward a fearful catalogue of the
crimes which their cunning has produced, when the weak slaves nave had
sufficient address to overreach their masters. In France, and in how many other
countries, have men been the luxurious despots, and women the crafty ministers?
Does this prove that ignorance and dependence domesticate them? Is not their
folly the byword of the libertines, who relax in their society? and do not men
of sense continually lament that an immoderate fondness for dress and
dissipation carries the mother of a family for ever from home? Their hearts
have not been debauched by knowledge, or their minds led away by scientific
pursuits, yet they do not fulfil the peculiar duties which, as women, they are
called upon by Nature to fulfil. On the contrary, the state of warfare which
subsists between the sexes makes them employ those wiles that often frustrate
the more open designs of force. When therefore I call women slaves, I mean in a
political and civil sense; for indirectly they obtain too much power, and are
debased by their exertions to obtain illicit sway. Let an enlightened nation3 then try what
effect reason would have to bring them back to nature, and their duty; and
allowing them to share the advantages of education and government with man, see
whether they will become better, as they grow wiser and become free. They
cannot be injured by the experiment, for it is not in the power of man to
render them more insignificant than they are at present. To render this practicable, day-schools for
particular areas should be established by Government, in which boys and girls
might be educated together. The school for the younger children, from five to
nine years of age, ought to be absolutely free and open to all classes.4
A sufficient number of masters should also be chosen by a select committee in
each parish, to whom any complaint of negligence, etc., might be made, if
signed by six of the children's parents. Ushers would then be unnecessary; for I believe
experience will ever prove that this kind of subordinate authority is
particularly injurious to the morals of youth. What, indeed, can tend to
deprave the character more than outward submission and inward contempt? Yet how
can boys be expected to treat an usher with respect, when the master seems to
consider him in the light of a servant, and almost to countenance the ridicule
which becomes the chief amusement of the boys during the play hours? But nothing of this kind could occur in an elementary
day school, where boys and girls, the rich and poor, should meet together. And
to prevent any of the distinctions of vanity, they should be dressed alike, and
all obliged to submit to the same discipline, or leave the school. The
schoolroom ought to be surrounded by a large piece of ground, in which the
children might be usefully exercised, for at this age they should not be
confined to any sedentary employment for more than an hour at a time. But these
relaxations might all be rendered a part of elementary education, for many
things improve and amuse the senses, when introduced as a kind of show, to the
principles of which, dryly laid down, children would turn a deaf ear. For
instance, botany, mechanics, and astronomy; reading, writing, arithmetic,
natural history, and some simple experiments in natural philosophy, might fill
up the day; but these pursuits should never encroach on gymnastic plays in the
open air. The elements of religion, history, the history of man, and politics,
might also be taught by conversations in the Socratic form. After the age of nine, girls and boys, intended for
domestic employments, or mechanical trades, ought to be removed to other
schools, and receive instruction in some measure appropriated to the
destination of each individual, the two sexes being still together in the
morning; but in the afternoon the girls should attend a school, where plain
work, mantua-making, millinery, etc., would be their employment. The young people of superior abilities, or fortune,
might now be taught, in another school, the dead and living languages, the
elements of science, and continue the study of history and politics, on a more
extensive scale, which would not exclude polite literature. Girls and boys still together? I hear some readers
ask. Yes. And I should not fear any other consequence than that some early
attachment might take place; which, whilst it had the best effect on the moral
character of the young people, might not perfectly agree with the views of the
parents, for it will be a long time, I fear, before the world will be so far
enlightened that parents, only anxious to render their children virtuous, shall
allow them to choose companions for life themselves. Besides, this would be a sure way to promote early
marriages, from early marriages the most salutary physical and moral effects
naturally flow. What a different character does a married citizen assume from
the selfish coxcomb, who lives but for himself, and who is often afraid to
marry lest he should not be able to live in a certain style. Great emergencies
excepted, which would rarely occur in a society of which equality was the
basis, a man can only be prepared to discharge the duties of public life, by
the habitual practice of those inferior ones which form the man. In this plan of education the constitution of boys
would not be ruined by the early debaucheries, which now make men so selfish,
or girls rendered weak and vain, by indolence, and frivolous pursuits. But, I
presuppose, that such a degree of equality should be established between the
sexes as would shut out gallantry and coquetry, yet allow friendship and love
to temper the heart for the discharge of higher duties. These would be schools of morality — and the
happiness of man, allowed to flow from the pure springs of duty and affection,
what advances might not the human mind make? Society can only be happy and free
in proportion as it is virtuous; but the present distinctions, established in
society, corrode all private, and blast all public virtue. I have already inveighed against the custom of
confining girls to their needle, and shutting them out from all political and
civil employments; for by thus narrowing their minds they are rendered unfit to
fulfil the peculiar duties which Nature has assigned them. Only employed about the little incidents of the day,
they necessarily grow up cunning. My very soul has often sickened at observing
the sly tricks practised by women to gain some foolish thing on which their
silly hearts were set. Not allowed to dispose of money, or call anything their
own, they learn to turn the market penny; or, should a husband offend, by
staying from home, or give rise to some emotions of jealousy — a new gown, or
any pretty bauble, smooths Juno's angry brow. But these littlenesses would not degrade their
character, if women were led to respect themselves, if political and moral
subjects were opened to them; and, I will venture to affirm, that this is the
only way to make them properly attentive to their domestic duties. An active
mind embraces the whole circle of its duties, and finds time enough for all. It
is not, I assert, a bold attempt to emulate masculine virtues; it is not the
enchantment of literary pursuits, or the steady investigation of scientific subjects,
that leads women astray from duty. No, it is indolence and vanity — the love of
pleasure and the love of sway, that will reign paramount in an empty mind. I
say empty emphatically, because the education which women now receive scarcely
deserves the name. For the little knowledge that they are led to acquire,
during the important years of youth, is merely relative to accomplishments; and
accomplishments without a bottom, for unless the understanding be cultivated,
superficial and monotonous is every grace. Like the charms of a made-up face,
they only strike the senses in a crowd; but at home, wanting mind, they want
variety. The consequence is obvious; in gay scenes of dissipation we meet the
artificial mind and face, for those who fly from solitude dread, next to
solitude, the domestic circle; not having it in their power to amuse or
interest, they feel their own insignificance, or find nothing to amuse or
interest themselves. Besides, what can be more indelicate than a girl's
coming out in the fashionable world? Which, in other words, is to bring to
market a marriageable miss, whose person is taken from one public place to
another, richly caparisoned. Yet, mixing in the giddy circle under restraint,
these butterflies long to flutter at large, for the first affection of their
souls is their own persons, to which their attention has been called with the
most sedulous care whilst they were preparing for the period that decides their
fate for life. Instead of pursuing this idle routine, fighting for tasteless
show, and heartless state, with what dignity would the youths of both sexes
form attachments in the schools that I have cursorily pointed out; in which, as
life advanced, dancing, music, and drawing) might be admitted as relaxations,
for at these schools young people of fortune ought to remain, more or less,
till they were of age. Those who were designed for particular professions might
attend, three or four mornings in the week, the schools appropriated for their
immediate instruction. I only drop these observations at present, as hints;
rather, indeed, as an outline of the plan I mean, than a digested one; but I
must add, that I highly approve of one regulation mentioned in the pamphlet5
already alluded to, that of making the children and youths independent of the
masters respecting punishments. They should be tried by their peers, which
would be an admirable method of fixing sound principles of justice in the mind,
and might have the happiest effect on the temper, which is very early soured or
irritated by tyranny, till it becomes peevishly cunning, or ferociously
overbearing. My imagination darts forward with benevolent fervour
to greet these amiable and respectable groups, in spite of the sneering of cold
hearts, who are at liberty to utter, with frigid self-importance, the damning
epithet — romantic; the force of which I shall endeavour to blunt by repeating
the words of an eloquent moralist: "I know not whether the allusions of a
truly humane heart, whose zeal renders everything easy, be not preferable to
that rough and repulsing reason, which always finds an indifference for the
public good, the first obstacle to whatever would promote it." I know that libertines will also exclaim, that woman
would be unsexed by acquiring strength of body and mind, and that beauty, soft
bewitching beauty! would no longer adorn the daughters of men. I am of a very
different opinion, for I think that, on the contrary, we should then see
dignified beauty and true grace; to produce which, many powerful physical and moral
causes would concur. Not relaxed beauty, it is true, or the graces of
helplessness; but such as appears to make us respect the human body as a
majestic pile fit to receive a noble inhabitant, in the relics of antiquity. I do not forget the popular opinion that the Grecian
statues were not modelled after nature. I mean, not according to the proportion
of a particular man; but that beautiful limbs and features were selected from
various bodies to form an harmonious whole. This might, in some degree, be
true. The fine ideal picture of an exalted imagination might be superior to the
materials which the statuary found in nature, and thus it might with propriety
be termed rather the model of mankind than of a man. It was not, however, the
mechanical selection of limbs and features; but the ebullition of an heated
fancy that burst forth, and the fine senses and enlarged understanding the
artist selected the solid matter, which he drew into this glowing focus. I observed that it was not mechanical because a whole
was produced — a model of that grand simplicity, of those concurring energies,
which arrest our attention and command our reverence. For only insipid lifeless
beauty is produced by a servile copy of even beautiful nature. Yet, independent
of these observations, I believe that the human form must have been far more
beautiful than it is at present, because extreme indolence, barbarous
ligatures, and many causes, which forcibly act on it, in our luxurious state of
society, did not retard its expansion, or render it deformed. Exercise and
cleanliness appear to be not only the surest means of preserving health, but of
promoting beauty, the physical causes only considered; yet this is not
sufficient, moral ones must concur, or beauty will be merely of that rustic
kind which blooms on the innocent, whole some countenances of some country
people, whose minds have not been exercised. To render the person perfect,
physical and moral beauty ought to be attained at the same time; each lending
and receiving force by the combination. Judgment must reside on the brow,
affection and fancy beam in the eye, and humanity curve the cheek, or vain is
the sparkling of the finest eye or the elegantly turned finish of the fairest
features; whilst in every motion that displays the active limbs and well-knit
joints, grace and modesty should appear. But this fair assemblage is not to be
brought together by chance; it is the reward of exertions calculated to support
each other; for judgment can only be acquired by reflection, affection by the
discharge of duties, and humanity by the exercise of compassion to every living
creature. Humanity to animals should be particularly inculcated
as a part of national education, for it is not at present one of our national
virtues. Tenderness for their humble dumb domestics, amongst the lower class,
is oftener to be found in a savage than a civilised state. For civilisation
prevents that intercourse which creates affection in the rude hut, or mud
hovel, and leads uncultivated minds who are only depraved by the refinements
which prevail in the society, where they are trodden under foot by the rich, to
domineer over them to revenge the insults that they are obliged to bear from
their superiors. This habitual cruelty is first caught at school,
where it is one of the rare sports of the boys to torment the miserable brutes
that fall in their way. The transition, as they grow up, from barbarity to
brutes to domestic tyranny over wives, children, and servants, is very easy.
Justice, or even benevolence, will not be a powerful spring of action unless it
extend to the whole creation; nay, I believe that it may be delivered as an
axiom, that those who can see pain, unmoved, will soon learn to inflict it. The vulgar are swayed by present feelings, and the
habits which they have accidentally acquired; but on partial feelings much
dependence cannot be placed, though they be just; for, when they are not
invigorated by reflection, custom weakens them, till they are scarcely
perceptible. The sympathies of our nature are strengthened by pondering
cogitations, and deadened by thoughtless use. Macbeth's heart smote him more
for one murder, the first, than for a hundred subsequent ones, which were
necessary to back it. But, when I used the epithet vulgar, I did not mean
to confine my remark to the poor, for partial humanity, founded on present
sensations, or whim, is quite as conspicuous, if not more so, amongst the rich.
The lady who sheds tears for the bird starved in a
snare, and execrates the devils in the shape of men, who goad to madness the
poor ox, or whip the patient ass, tottering under a burden above its strength,
will nevertheless keep her coachman and horses whole hours waiting for her,
when the sharp frost bites, or the rain beats against the well-closed windows
which do not admit a breath of air to tell her how roughly the wind blows
without. And she who takes her dogs to bed, and nurses them with a parade of
sensibility, when sick. will suffer her babes to grow up crooked in a nursery.
This illustration of my argument is drawn from a matter of fact. The woman whom
I allude to was handsome, reckoned very handsome, by those who do not miss the
mind when the face is plump and fair; but her understanding had not been led
from female duties by literature, nor her innocence debauched by knowledge. No,
she was quite feminine, according to the masculine acceptation of the word;
and, so far from loving these spoiled brutes that filled the place which her
children ought to have occupied, she only lisped out a pretty mixture of French
and English nonsense, to please the men who flocked round her. The wife,
mother, and human creature, were all swallowed up by the factitious character
which an improper education and the selfish vanity of beauty had produced. I do not like to make a distinction without a
difference, and I own that I have been as much disgusted by the fine lady who
took her lap-dog to her bosom instead of her child; as by the ferocity of a
man, who, beating his horse, declared, that he knew as well when he did wrong,
as a Christian. This brood of folly shows how mistaken they are who,
if they allow women to leave their harems, do not cultivate their
understandings, in order to plant virtues in their hearts. For had they sense,
they might acquire that domestic taste which would lead them to love with
reasonable subordination their whole family, from their husband to the house
dog; nor would they ever insult humanity in the person of the most menial
servant by paying more attention to the comfort of a brute, than to that of a
fellow-creature. My observations on national education are obviously
hints; but I principally wish to enforce the necessity of educating the sexes
together to perfect both, and of making children sleep at home that they may
learn to love home; yet to make private support, instead of smothering, public
affections, they should be sent to school to mix with a number of equals, for
only by the jostlings of equality can we form a just opinion of ourselves. To render mankind more virtuous, and happier of
course, both sexes must act from the same principle; but how can that be
expected when only one is allowed to see the reasonableness of it? To render
also the social compact truly equitable, and in order to spread those
enlightening principles, which alone can ameliorate the fate of man, women must
be allowed to found their virtue on knowledge, which is scarcely possible
unless they be educated by the same pursuits as men. For they are now made so
inferior by ignorance and low desires, as not to deserve to be ranked with
them; or, by the serpentine wrigglings of cunning, they mount the tree of
knowledge, and only acquire sufficient to lead men astray. It is plain from the history of all nations, that
women cannot be confined to merely domestic pursuits, for they will not fulfil
family duties, unless their minds take a wider range, and whilst they are kept
in ignorance they become in the same proportion the slaves of pleasure as they
are the slaves of man. Nor can they be shut out of great enterprises, though
the narrowness of their minds often make them mar, what they are unable to
comprehend. The libertinism, and even the virtues of superior
men, will always give women, of some description, great power over them; and
these weak women, under the influence of childish passions and selfish vanity,
will throw a false light over the objects which the very men view with their
eyes, who ought to enlighten their judgment. Men of fancy, and those sanguine
characters who mostly hold the helm of human affairs, in general, relax in the
society of women; and surely I need not cite to the most superficial reader of
history the numerous examples of vice and oppression which the private
intrigues of female favourites have produced; not to dwell on the mischief that
naturally arises from the blundering interposition of well-meaning folly. For in the transactions of business it is much better
to have to deal with a knave than a fool, because a knave adheres to some plan;
and any plan of reason may be seen through much sooner than a sudden flight of
folly. The power which vile and foolish women have had over wise men, who
possessed sensibility, is notorious; I shall only mention one instance. Whoever drew a more exalted female character than
Rousseau? though in the lump he constantly endeavoured to degrade the sex. And
why was he thus anxious? Truly to justify to himself the affection which
weakness and virtue had made him cherish for that fool Theresa. He could not
raise her to the common level of her sex; and therefore he laboured to bring
woman down to hers. He found her a convenient humble companion, and pride made
him determine to find some superior virtues in the being whom he chose to live
with; but did not her conduct during his life, and after his death, clearly
show how grossly he was mistaken who called her a celestial innocent? Nay, in
the bitterness of his heart, he himself laments that when his bodily
infirmities made him no longer treat her like a woman, she ceased to have an
affection for him. And it was very natural that she should, for having so few
sentiments in common, when the sexual tie was broken, what was to hold her? To
hold her affection whose sensibility was confined to one sex, nay, to one man,
it requires sense to turn sensibility into the broad channel of humanity. Many
women have not mind enough to have an affection for a woman, or a friendship
for a man. But the sexual weakness that makes woman depend on a man for a
subsistence, produces a kind of cattish affection, which leads a wife to purr
about her husband as she would about any man who fed and caressed her. Men are, however, often gratified by this kind of
fondness, which is confined in a beastly manner to themselves; but should they
ever become more virtuous, they will wish to converse at their fireside with a
friend after they cease to play with a mistress. Besides, understanding is necessary to give variety
and interest to sensual enjoyments, for low indeed in the intellectual scale is
the mind that can continue to love when neither virtue nor sense give a human
appearance to an animal appetite. will always preponderate; and if women be
not, in general, brought more on a level with men, some superior like the Greek
courtesans, will assemble the men of abilities around them, and draw from their
families many citizens, who would have stayed at home had their wives had more
sense, or the graces which result from the exercise of the understanding and
fancy, the legitimate parents of taste. A woman of talents, if she be not
absolutely ugly, will always obtain great power — raised by the weakness of her
sex; and in proportion as men acquire virtue and delicacy, by the exertion of
reason, they will look for both in women, but they can only acquire them in the
same way that men do. In France or Italy, have the women confined
themselves to domestic life? Though they have not hitherto had a political
existence, yet have they not illicitly had great sway, corrupting themselves
and the men with whose passions they played? In short, in whatever light I view
the subject, reason and experience convince me that the only method of leading
women to fulfil their peculiar duties is to free them from all restraint by
allowing them to participate the inherent rights of mankind. Make them free, and they will quickly become wise and
virtuous, as men become more so, for the improvement must be mutual, or the
injustice which one-half of the human race are obliged to submit to retorting
on their oppressors, the virtue of man will be worm-eaten by the insect whom he
keeps under his feet. Let men take their choice. Man and woman were made
for each other, though not to become one being; and if they will not improve
women, they will deprave them. I speak of the improvement and emancipation of the
whole sex, for I know that the behaviour of a few women, who, by accident, or
following a strong bent of nature, have acquired a portion of knowledge
superior to that of the rest of their sex, has often been overbearing; but
there have been instances of women who, attaining knowledge, have not discarded
modesty, nor have they always pedantically appeared to despise the ignorance
which they laboured to disperse in their own minds. The exclamations then which
any advice respecting female learning commonly produces, especially from pretty
women, often arise from envy. When they chance to see that even the lustre of
their eyes, and the flippant sportiveness of refined coquetry, will not always
secure them attention during a whole evening, should a woman of a more
cultivated understanding endeavour to give a rational turn to the conversation,
the common source of consolation is that such women seldom get husbands. What
arts have I not seen silly women use to interrupt by flirtation — a very
significant word to describe such a manoeuvre — a rational conversation, which
made the forget that they were pretty women. But, allowing what is very natural to man, that the
possession of rare abilities is really calculated to excite over-weening pride,
disgusting in both men and women, in what a state of inferiority must the
female faculties have rusted when such a small portion of knowledge as those
women attained, who have sneeringly been termed learned women, could be
singular?-sufficiently so to puff up the possessor, and excite envy in her
contemporaries, and some of the other sex. Nay, has not a little rationality
exposed many women to the severest censure? I advert to well-known facts, for I
have frequently heard women ridiculed, and every little weakness exposed, only
because they adopted the advice of some medical men, and deviated from the
beaten track in their mode of treating their infants. I have actually heard
this barbarous aversion to innovation carried still further, and a sensible
woman stigmatised as an unnatural mother, who has thus been wisely solicitous
to preserve the health of her children, when in the midst of her care she has
lost one by some of the casualties of infancy, which no prudence can ward off.
Her acquaintance have observed that this was the consequence of new-fangled
notions — the new-fangled notions of ease and cleanliness. And those who
pretending to experience, though they have long adhered to prejudices that
have, according to the opinion of the most sagacious physicians, thinned the
human race, almost rejoiced at the disaster that gave a kind of sanction to
prescription. Indeed, if it were only on this account, the national
education of women is of the utmost consequence, for what a number of human
sacrifices are made to that Moloch prejudice! And in how many ways are children
destroyed by the lasciviousness of man? The want of natural affection in many
women, who are drawn from their duty by the admiration of men, and the
ignorance of others, render the infancy of man a much more perilous state than
that of brutes; yet men are unwilling to place women in situations proper to
enable them to acquire sufficient understanding to know how even to nurse their
babes. So forcibly does this truth strike me that I would
rest the whole tendency of my reasoning upon it, for whatever tends to
incapacitate the maternal character, takes woman out of her sphere. But it is vain to expect the present race of weak
mothers either to take that reasonable care of a child's body, which is
necessary to lay the foundation of a good constitution, supposing that it do
not suffer for the sins of its fathers; or to manage its temper so judiciously
that the child will not have, as it grows up, to throw off all that its mother,
its first instructor directly or indirectly taught; and unless the mind have
uncommon vigour, womanish follies will stick to the character throughout life.
The weakness of the mother will be visited on the children. And whilst women
are educated to rely on their husbands for judgment, this must ever be the
consequence, for there is no improving an understanding by halves, nor can any
being act wisely from imitation, because in every circumstance of life there is
a kind of individuality, which requires an exertion of judgment to modify
general rules. The being who can think justly in one track will soon extend its
intellectual empire; and she who has sufficient judgment to manage her children
will not submit, right or wrong, to her husband, or patiently to the social
laws which make a nonentity of a wife. In public schools women, to guard against the errors
of ignorance, should be taught the elements of anatomy an medicine, not only to
enable them to take proper care of their own health, but to make them rational
nurses of their infants, parents, and husbands; for the bills of mortality are
swelled by the blunders of self-willed old women, who give nostrums of their
own without knowing anything of the human frame. It is likewise proper, only in
a domestic view, to make women acquainted with the anatomy of the mind, by allowing
the sexes to associate together in every pursuit, and by leading them to
observe the progress of the human understanding in the improvement of the
sciences and arts — never forgetting the science of morality, or the study of
the political history of mankind. A man has been termed a microcosm, and every family
might also be called a state. States, it is true, have mostly been governed by
arts that disgrace the character of man, and the want of a just constitution
and equal laws have so perplexed the notions of the worldly wise, that they
more than question the reasonableness of contending for the rights of humanity.
Thus morality, polluted in the national reservoir, sends off streams of vice to
corrupt the constituent parts of the body politic; but should more noble, or
rather more just, principles regulate the laws, which ought to be the
government of society, and not those who execute them, duty might become the
rule of private conduct. Besides, by the exercise of their bodies and minds
women would acquire that mental activity so necessary in the maternal
character, united with the fortitude that distinguishes steadiness of conduct
from the obstinate perverseness of weakness. For it is dangerous to advise the
indolent to be steady, because they instantly become rigorous, and to save
themselves trouble, punish with severity faults that the patient fortitude of
reason might have prevented. But fortitude presupposes strength of mind, and is
strength of mind to be acquired by indolent acquiescence? by asking advice
instead of exerting the judgment? by obeying through fear, instead of
practising the forbearance which we all stand in need of ourselves? The
conclusion which I wish to draw is obvious. Make women rational creatures and
free citizens, and they will quickly become good wives and mothers — that is,
if men do not neglect the duties of husbands and fathers. Discussing the advantages which a public and private
education combined, as I have sketched, might rationally be expected to
produce, I have dwelt most on such as are particularly relative to the female
world, because I think the female world pressed; yet the gangrene, which the
vices engendered by oppression have produced, is not confined to the morbid
part, but pervades society at large; so that when I wish to see my sex become
more like moral agents, my heart bounds with the anticipation of the general
diffusion of that sublime contentment which only morality can diffuse. 1 I now
particularly allude to the numerous academies in and about London, and to the
behaviour of the trading part of this city. 2 I
remember a circumstance that once came under my own observation, and raised my
indignation. I went to visit a little boy at a school where young children were
prepared for a large one. The master took me into the schoolroom, etc., but
whilst I walked down a broad gravel walk, I could not help observing that the
grass grew very luxuriantly on each side of me. I immediately asked the child
some questions, and found that the poor boys were not allowed to stir off the
walk, and that the master sometimes permitted sheep to be turned in to crop the
untrodden grass. The tyrant of this domain used to sit by a window that
overlooked the prison yard, and one nook turning from it, where the unfortunate
babes could sport freely, he enclosed, and planted it with potatoes. The wife
likewise was equally anxious to keep the children in order, lest they should
dirty or tear their clothes. 3
France. 4
Treating this part of the subject, I have borrowed some hints from a very
sensible pamphlet, written by the late Bishop of Autun, on "Public
Education." 5 The
Bishop of Autun's. |