HOME LIFE
THE
very planning,
building, and furnishing of such a home as I have endeavored to
describe will prove a powerful incentive toward a simpler and more
significant family life. Take the one item of pictures, for example.
If the selection of these involves a preliminary study of the history
of art, and an acquaintance with the aims and ideals of the great
masters, what a step in culture will have been achieved! And in
surroundings of simple dignity, light and flippant music will soon
appear vulgar and inopportune. Ephemeral ragtime airs will yield
precedence to Schumann and Chopin, to Beethoven and Bach. Poetry will
be in keeping with the spirit of such a home, and Keats and Shelley
will not be forgotten.
A
superficial liking for aesthetic things may be accompanied with the
most trifling of dilettantism, and have no effect in deepening
spiritual life, but a real understanding or even a resolute effort to
understand and sympathize with the ideal of beauty must of necessity
strengthen and enrich the soul of man. Gradually the dweller in the
simple home will come to ponder upon the meaning of art, and will
awaken to that illuminating insight that all
art is a form of service inspired by love.
It will then become apparent how truly the home is the real art
center. The great Christian painters have chosen for the theme of
their noblest works — the divine mother looking with adoration upon
her child. And what mother has not the halo of divinity about her as
she bends with loving solicitude above the helpless life that is to
be made or marred by the power she exercises over it. We hear much in
these days of race suicide, but the menace comes not from those who
love their homes. It is only amongst those for whom the feverish
pleasures of the world outweigh the simple joys of the hearthstone
that this danger exists.
In the
thought of service lies the salvation of the race as of the
individual, and in the simple home, service comes so naturally.
Service is love realized in activity. The very mark which
distinguishes love from lust is this same service — this
willingness to objectify faith in work, to share tasks, to lighten
the burdens of another. As love is the end of life, so is service the
test and sign of love.
What
is the home but a temple consecrated to love, where the form of
worship is service? And the woman is the high priestess, the one who
makes the supreme sacrifice, the one who has the supreme reward. The
idea of woman's rights becomes insignificant in the face of this
great privilege of service. But the woman must be fitted for the
service — the higher the service the more complete the training.
Higher education is a matter of course for the woman of whom we are
to expect higher service. And what higher service does life afford
than the molding of the plastic mind of the child, the expanding of
the soul's horizon, the developing of character, the leading, by
precept and example, of the human spirit up the height of Sinai where
it may stand in the presence of its God.
Not
alone in the relation of parents to offspring, but in all the
associations of family life is this touchstone of service
illuminating. The relations of children to one another and to the
home are exalted by it. The duties of the servant are no longer those
of a drudge when elevated to the dignity of participation in family
service and in the advancement and joy of home life. And the mistress
also has a duty of service toward her helper which is not discharged
by the payment of certain sums of money — a duty to aid in
lightening the tasks, in making the work more rational, more
interesting, more orderly, and in making the leisure
more joyous.,
more profitable toward attaining the ends of refinement and humanity.
California
Home in the Spirit of a Swiss Chalet
Of all
reforms needed in
the life of the home, that of the relation of the man to his family
is most pressing. Modern materialism demands of far too many men an
unworthy sacrifice. That the wife and children may live in
ostentation the man must be a slave to business, rushing and jostling
with the crowd in the scramble for wealth. A simpler standard of
living will give him more time for art and culture, more time for his
family, more time to live.
The day
is ripe for the
general adoption of this idea of the simple home. People are growing
weary of shams and are longing for reality. They will never get it
till they learn that the ideal is the real, that beauty is truth, and
that love is the inspiration for beauty. Let those who would see a
higher culture in California, a deeper life, a nobler humanity, work
for the adoption of the simple home among all classes of people,
trusting that the inspiration of its mute walls will be a ceaseless
challenge to all who dwell within their shadow, for beauty and
character.
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